I just have to say... what kind of man gets engaged to OW when he's still married, and what kind of woman get engaged to a man that hasn't even filed for D?
Doesn't look like a very healthy relationship, does it? I'm so sorry that you and the children are going through this. hugs to you.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.