But I think you need to clarify with your old friend that going out to listen to jazz isn't going to cause a problem for anyone he may have waiting at home (just shoot him a msg on FB) and then you'll know. You're making some assumptions and it would be better to know before you go out.
OK, that makes sense.
Originally Posted By: mnt_dreams
So, if it's not a problem b/c he's either unattached or he reassures you it's not an issue and it's just catching up with an old friend, I think you should go because it will be great for your confidence, and independence.
I think so too .
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