((P)) I think you made a careful and thoughtful decision.
I'm not so sure I think I did what was 'right' but I broke NC. I texted W to say thank her for the card and voucher and that I would ask D to give her a call soon. Not sure of the implications with breaking NC but I offered her a small olive branch I think. I haven't heard back from her yet. I may not and if I don't I'm not sure what that means either. The whole sitch with it kind of confuses me. Had a little cry while loading the washing machine (strange when your mind decides you should be upset :)) and have been a little teary ever since. Something as stupid as this and I fall to pieces again. When will I learn.
Anyway, it is what it is. There is little I can do about it. I have put my head up, made a gesture and hope it will be returned in some way. If not, I'll be a bit wiser the next time.
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Hope you have a great birthday... mine is the following day. Let's have a virtual birthday party. I already know what I'm getting from H. See my thread.
I saw that on FB DBD. I'm really sorry. I'll post over on your thread shortly.
{{{DBD}}}
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
I think I did what was 'right' but I broke NC. I texted W to say thank her for the card and voucher and that I would ask D to give her a call soon. Not sure of the implications with breaking NC but I offered her a small olive branch I think. I haven't heard back from her yet. I may not and if I don't I'm not sure what that means either. The whole sitch with it kind of confuses me. Had a little cry while loading the washing machine (strange when your mind decides you should be upset :)) and have been a little teary ever since. Something as stupid as this and I fall to pieces again. When will I learn.