thanks, old pilot. i have read DR, front to back at least 2 times and i've spoken with a DB coach. i thought once before that he was bipolar but his counselor diagnosed him with ADHD. i would never tell him i thought he was depressed, and i am trying to GAL. i have not tried to push reconnection, and i know he feels very guilty about his decision. he looks at me like his puppy just died every time i see him. we "unofficially" separated one before in august of 2008, but he went to stay with his parents, and after 2 weeks of no contact, decided to do a 180 and asked to work things out. my fear now is that he's much more serious because he's not looking to just stay on someone's couch for a week or two...he'll be signing a year long lease!
flowmom, my H isn't the type to backtrack either...especially once there is a lease signed. but he has handed me no papers and we have no official separation agreement of any kind (other than a verbal agreement of who would get what). have you spoken to a lawyer yet? do i need to ask for a separation agreement before he moves out?
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
