My H moved out soon after dropping the bomb. He was really upset, but it was guilt and shame about his decision, not love for me or a desire to reconcile. I pushed him out the door by trying to reconnect with him at a time when he needed tons of space . It was really hard when he moved out, esp because I know he's not the type to backtrack.
Hang in there.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
. It was really hard when he moved out, esp because I know he's not the type to backtrack. 