Wife wants best of both worlds

[ClingingToHope]

DW, I wouldn't push too hard on who should lead the discussion. She'll see it as you trying to control her. In our case, the talk just kind of happened on both sides. My W painted it as me needing more attention than she was willing to give. She told them I needed to be free to find someone better suited for me.

So she painted herself as a hero. We'll see how that works out. D10 and D7 aren't stupid.

I told the girls I'd always love W and she's unhappy and still searching for the magic thing that will make her happy. I added I still believe W does love me, that it's just buried somewhere.

D10 said by the time W figures that out I'll be remarried. D10 is really stressing over this. We're going to have to keep a close eye on her.