Well yesterday mroning I recieve two calls from a prepaid number that has only one digit difference from OM's telling me that I need to stay away from home.She loves hom not me and various other thigs pertaining to their personal conversations as well as a threat if I mention anything about the calls. Funny thing is is that he was on the phone with her when the 2nd call came in but the voices were alike. Any ideas on how he did this. When I confronted her she was upset but says because she was on the phone with him at the time of the 2nd call she does not know what to believe. I showed her phone records as well as my phone . Upon further investigation I was able to trace the phone to the county OM works in and lives next to. It was a pre pay. She says she does not know what to believe because I was able to tell her things only they discussed. I set a boundary here and told her OM has to get out of the picture. I will not be threatened and harrassed and there is a level of human decency and respect that has been crossed. SHe said she does not know what to believe.

She also stated last night that the marriage was complewtely over and that she would be moving out of the house in mid Feb back to her parents. SHe moved into the 3rd bedroom last night very upset that I stood my ground and slept in MY bed.

We also had the best friends talk. I stated that I believe in our marriage that I do not believe the affair is right but that I can not continue to enable what she is doing to which she responded that she was hurt because there is noone she trusts more and that she does not want to lode her best friend. As hard as it was I stood my ground because the fact is I will be respected. After the phone calls yesterday how can she honestly spew this stuff at me and expect me to be at her beck and call? Even the best friends thing is crap. I would NEVER have put up with that from anyone. I am continuing my 180's and she has made several comments on my changes usually followed up with the statement that I am going to make someone really happy one day.

Any advice or comments? This is REALLY hard. Also I confronted the internet thing which she actually accepted but I think that is just because she has made plans to move out.