Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

I just missed a process server coming to deliver D papers. My S answered the door and a woman asked for me to come and sign some papers. When would I need to do that? For D papers. I was not home.

Well at least I've been somewhat ready for it. I was trying to get to my L yesterday to get my paperwork on the way. But it still is numbing. Nice... my birthday week.