MSH, we still need to talk with the kids more about the D. I am going to talk with the W today and let her know she will need to lead the discussion. I want her to take responsibility and expalin to them why she moved out and why she wants a D. I do not want her to take all the responsibility but I do want her to be honest...the kids deserve that. However, a discussion about the OM in my opinion would not be a good thing at this time. To much to process and it could really hurt them.
I am starting to feel less and less each day about her and the OM and it feels good. GAL'ing and staying busy is key.
C-bart is going to join out little FB group...I will drop you a message with more info.