Originally Posted By: iwantittowork

That is what I have decided for myself. No matter what stbxw does, what the law decides, what my place and station will be at any given moment, if I have nothing but the clothes on my back, or maybe not even that: I WILL NOT LET THEM TAKE OR BREAK MY SPIRIT, NOR TAKE FROM ME THE ME THAT I AM!!

I almost slipped in that, when my STBXW dropped that bomb, and then as the financial devastation started. I then made the choice to not let those outside things affect the inside me.



Awesome. More great insight and advice. Thanks.


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.