ODP is the way to go for both of us I reckon, isnt it fun seeing the quizzical look on their faces when we dont bite lol! For me our separation has really made me see things from his side of the plate, ok it would have been far easier if he had talked to me about things but Ive learnt the lesson anyhow.
Really like the sneaky hug you minx, bet it felt dam good to get one and a touch of lingering.. dont ask for one for at least a fortnight now as otherwise you will set off his clingy radar, just let him wonder how long it will be before he gets another offer of a hug, or better still gives you one of his own free will. Or wait till he says something really nice and accidently forget your separated (NOT) and hug then apolagise you just forgot yourself lol!
On the weekend front what ever you do dont be nosy about it, if you need to just say you hope he enjoyed himself and leave it at that. Baby steps mate!
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