We have been having massive storms all week. More than California is used to! Anyway, baby's window in her room is leaking a bit. Not much, and I have never noticed it before. Normal rains it doesn't leak. When exh was here he noticed the towel in the window and looked at it...said he could seal it. I didn't say much.
Last night he sends a text saying he will come seal it today.
Is this something where I exercise my independence and say no thanks? On the other hand, it would be nice to have it done!
Oh and a funny thing was I was telling him yesterday about the almost flood I had with the pool and backyard the other day and he asked who came and fixed it...I told him my first exh. He said "figures! You would never call me!"
this remark, from a man who can't make a commitment to see his own baby? So you should call HIM when he is the last person to count on for anything? He doesn't pay you CS on time, or in the right amount, he doesn't visit the baby regularly, or fully, and he calls you at the last minute about visits, IF he calls you at all. He is the epitome of the term UNreliable...so why on earth would you call him for anything? He'd be the last guy I would call. Of course b/c that is the level of expectation HE built for you. As in LOW.....almost zero....
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
