one wonders, or at least I do. Ex took son out with him and the wifey last night to watch a gig of a band in which one of our youngest friends has joined, I also went out for a couple of ours for something to do sooner than sit in the house, anyhows I knew I needed to be back and actually walked in the house straight after son did, ex phoned to let me know he had dropped him off and he was home safe and sound, I let him know that I was also home and everything was ok, well yet again went into a long friendly chat and spoke to me very nice and for all the time he was driving home, wot I would like to know and I already probably know the answer is why is it that ex can only be freindly and really have these chats either when he is on his own or when hes out somewhere with son, he is just like the old ex that I knew when he speaks to me like this but then when he calls and she is there he is totally different, his aunt as also picked up on this when he calls her. and I have also noticed that this is now the only time he calls or speaks is when he has gotten five minutes away from her. weird that after five years nearly he is still a jeckyl and hyde, although I must say i have seen improvement