Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

if she has a long list of pre-existing problems with you that you knew about or didn't that she expected you to mindread and fix, sometimes they say they are drained of energy too. If they have been sitting back and feeling negative about you for a year or so, that is.

All of what you say seems to be true. There were pre-existing problems I didn't fix, there were ones I was supposed to mind read, and then there was one or two that I'll swear to this day were just made up. But I am accountable for a majority and yes W says she has been feeling negative for a while (year or more) and then in the summer went over the edge and here's where we are now. And of course, EA is a factor that can't be denied as part of it.