We are F/F, DownNotOut...She is absolutely not seeing anyone else. I know this for sure. She really does seem to not know who she is and wants to take time to herself. She said it isn't about seeing someone else--her e-mail seemed to indicate that once she works on herself and I work on myself she isn't ruling out being willing to give us a try. She said something similar in person...that if she started with a clean slate and then we didn't work out, at least she could say she gave it a fair chance. I just don't know what to do in the meantime. Where is she tonight? Why won't she call? My imagination is going crazy.
