here we go again

[Jstar]

so I go to my other dr appointment today where they hook me up for stress test and monitor. come to find out i'm having contractions. nurse was little concerned i did nt' feel them.

with 2 previous children i have never gone into labor but now that i've thought about it, what i feel are contractions but just didn't know they were.

nurse explained my body is getting ready so of course i'm scared. if i go into labor prior to surgery date they have to stop contractions so i can get off a medication then deliever, unless it's an emergency then they are going to take their chances of me bleeding out. hmm not like i need more stress. trying not to worry and just let things happen.

so i wanted to see what h's reaction to me having contractions would be, so he texts back, y dont u drive over to my house and drop d2 off u go home and get some rest. no question of anything how far apart are you in labor.

i had to ask him, are you really that stupid, he said yes. he keeps saying i'm immature and if i wanted to talk to call him. hmm i have talked, he doesn't.

asked him does he think he should be allowed in the delievery, no response.

asked him how did he think it was all going to go down, response i don't know.

i read the other posts and there is a gal who was pregnant,or just had the new baby and husband is in middle of ea/pa. i wonder if she allowed him in room? she is a saint, sees her h 6 days a week so he can see son in her house, etc. which is best for baby.

from what she says she is calm support of her h, me, no way could i be so calm and supportive while my h is screwing someone else with being pregnant or with a newborn. kudos to her.