Do I have this right? You are going to a jazz club with a man who may be married w/kids???? Will his wife be there?? If not, does she know? How do you think she feels about her husband going on a date??? Put yourself back in time a few years and in her shoes.... if it were your H?
I'm assuming that he would tell her. And I'm assuming that he wouldn't do anything that would upset her. My H has spent time with other women platonically, and I wasn't worried about it. Among my peers, it's not automatically inappropriate for married people to be friends with other married people or do things together. I know I wrote "date", but I meant that in a tongue-in-cheek way, not seriously.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
