well, as difficult as it will be, now you do your 180s, GALing. Work on areas of improvement. Look good. Do some new activities/ hobbies or do old ones.DO NOT CRY or be angry (in front of WH or kids, too because the kids can say "mom is doing good! She started kickboxing or decorating cakes or running" when they talk to dad.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004