GIMA, unbelievable for sure. She doesn't work and had the nerve to bring up her comfort level at your spending? She is filing for D which is costly in itself and will decrease both of your income levels, and yet has the nerve to balk at $4o? She needs to understand your financial choices are YOURS ALONE now. I would not say anything, just stay dark about it. But another part of me wants you to firmly tell he to back way off and she has no right to comment ever again on your personal life, including finances. She gave up that right when she filed for D.
