I am still avoiding telling what branch of military and location...we are kind of anamoly...people would know pretty quick.
Oh no, don't do that. Not neccessary, anyway.
I don't know. I've already deleted one post I was going to send you. The military! That isn't like putting in a job application and then changing your mind and saying you don't want it. (Maybe things are different these days.... )
Well, it will certainly test the MR and if she does follow you, then that should be a pretty good sign she's trying! I just hope you didn't make a bad decision out of your ragged emotions.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!