You need to change you name. You are not being a Christian husband. Perhaps you have the wrong concept of what one is.

Let me put it to you like this......you are not being a man. She is being the man b/c you aren't being one and you are allowing her to be the head of the home. No wonder she doesn't respect you! Have some backbone!

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!