Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

It is complicated. I am on a short list for a job that would make me move in 30 days and W in 3 or 4 months. It is a prestigous job that will also involve a lot hours. It is a great career move and the job for W in a few months also very good. I fear losing my M if I get the job and I have a chance now to burn bridges (career wise) to pull my name from consideration.