Onwards and upwards!

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I've had 15 mins in bed thinking since my above post.

As much as this breaks my heart, I think the only option for the card is option 1. It needs to go back. Anything else is just cake eating for W. She needs to get on with her life and allow us to get on with ours. What good could come of giving the card to D? W can never have a R with D while she is having an A - that wouldn't make sense - "I dont love you or your Dad enough to have fought for you, but here have a card and a voucher".

D needs to have a normal life and not be constantly be reminded of the step-mum she had. Thats not good for her.

I know I am killing my M a little bit more by doing this but I feel it's the right thing to do?

Still looking for advice on both questions though in last post.