Are the kids aware of the D, and that it will be official on a particular date? Do you think that she will follow the news of the D with basically the explaination for the D, meaning the OM? I would take one thing at a time and be strong for the kids, they will be looking to you for what is stable in their lives. I have made the conscious decision that I want my kids to grow up knowing that I am the more reliable parent, the one they ultimately come to when they are in need or in trouble.
You are the one that is with them at "home". Mom will always be the one who left. It will hit her one day, and she will realize the damage she caused and she will fall apart. On that day you want the kids to know they can come to you because you have been their "Rock".
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
