Sorry not been around today GW fighting my own demons has distracted me a tad today!
Only thing I say, is yes like you WE agreed to plan our careers with H working and me me SAHM and then working part time.. That was a joint decision at the time, now I have contributed my life to bringing up S not that I regret that one bit, but now H sees us as separate people Im going to lose out.. Its now become his job and money and my job and money.. he can earn up to £100k a year me just £20k in my mind Im worth the £50k shared but he doesnt see it that way.. What Im trying to say is what is agreed can come back to bite you in the butt and cause resentment if the agreement isnt stuck too.. Your W may be regretting agreeing I dunno?
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!