Come on no mind reading, he probably hasnt said because he knew he get the third degree, like the time my H went behind my back to a party when we had previously agreed not to go cos he wont wear his wedding ring and it would be obvious to everyone, he went anyway and never told me he had gone till after.
Well done on getting through the potty moment, and not biting when he told you about going away! your ODP is working even if not 100% realiable just yet.
Take all the cards and birthday stuff with a pinch of salt, in fogland he may have forgotton to not write what he always did although my H stopped writing love you on cards, I never noticed my WA card said just his name at the bottom and just my name at the top till afterwards.
Tomorrow is another day missus keep your head held high and lets see where it take us all!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
