Help! My H just informs me, and not on his own, after I had to ask him what his plans are for the weekend that he will be gone until Sunday afternoon. ODP is not working well. I wonder why did he keep this from me. I'm afraid there's an OW. If there's not, why did he hide whatever he is doing from me? I know i don't even have a right to wonder - and it may be nothing. But I feel stupid for getting my hopes up around my birthday. If he has a secret, or an OW, how do I handle it? I guess say nothing and pretend it doesn't bother me. But I'm seeing red right now and he's supposed to come for dinner. I am beginning to feel really taken for granted.