Need help staying focused. H is moving so fast. He keeps telling me he wants to move on as soon as possible. Luckily he has taken the kids to Las Vegas this weekend to see his sister, so I will have some much needed alone time.
I really feel that for my own sanity, I need to find out if there is OW or not. If there is, I think I would change my attitude about being separated, and able to let go more affectively. I know I would be devastated, but I still think it helps to know the truth. If there is no OW, then I can assume my H is just really depressed, possibly MLC. Knowing this, I think I would feel differently as well. Be friendlier with him and have more patience.
I would love to hear from others that are separated, where spouse is having an affair or is not. And any techniques that they feel has really helped them to get positive feedback or has caused the WAS to slow down the break-up process.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
