need help fast

[courageous wife]

I am not sure where to be...here or in newcomers. Yes, it was OW. AFter I calmed down, I called him and asked if he got what he needed. He said yes and I asked who was with him and he said, who do you think. Told him I was uncomfortable with her knowing where we live and he said he didn't think we would have a problem and then said that they didn't go in the house, just the garage. I repeated that I was not comfortable with him bringing her to MY house and that it was very disrespectful of him to do that and to not do it again. He said he understood and would not.

I cannot believe a word that comes out of his mouth. He left 12/30 after I used his cell phone and called OW. I didn't talk to her...just hung up. Stupid.

I have given him the talk about I choose this M but will not be in an open one and that if he chose to continue being with OW then he needed to own that decision to our kids and famiy and friends. That was 3 weeks ago. No word yet on his decision but it seems to be he has made that choice since he is flaunting OW all over the place. We live in a town of pop. 100. Chances of being seen with her are very good. He obviously has no respect for me or his kids.

I am just not sure where to go from here.....I still have hope that we can make our M work but it is slowly fading!