Your husband who is a lawyer, is telling you to get a lawyer.
Getting the best DIVORCE lawyer you can doesn't mean you go ahead with the divorce, it just means you have the best champion on your side you can find if you do go to court.
Burying your head in the sand, and you might find you do't have a house or custody of your kids when you pull it out.
Make him work for the D, but do not be stupid and not lawyer up.
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