New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Just got back from my IC. I've been going there for the past 19 months, ever since my W left. The counselor has been a great help all this time. I always give her updates on my latest phone calls with W, trips to see the boys. After I told her about my latest phone contacts with W, she said my W is hard to read.

Usually, she says the WAW either goes forward with the D or later gives signs of reconciliation. But my W doesn't fit either scenarios. She feels my W still has trust issues with me. My W doesn't say too much during the phone calls, but at least takes them. My IC counselor just told me to keep doing what I've been doing: show the kids that I care thru my calling schedule. The W surely notices it. She also probably notices my attitude change. Yet, she still seems to not trust me again...

Anyway, feedback from IC today.

JR09