You obviously don't want to do this. Why not make him do the work if this is what he wants. Why are you doing it?

I told my W if she wants a D, she will have to do it herself. I won't take part in it.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...