It would be God that I would be trusting. And I would eventually trust her with time again. A lot of M's that come back together actually thrive far better than they were the first time. But I am sure it would take a bit of time before I completely felt comfortable that this wasn't going to happen again.
People change. People make mistakes. I made mistakes and W made mistakes. Hopefully you grow and learn from those mistakes so they are not repeated again in the future.
Like I said before. I don't blame her for wanting separation. Things needed to change. I wish she hadn't gone as extreme as she did. But she did. So it is what it is. With time I pray that everything comes back into alignment and our M and family is back together again and better than ever before which I think it will be if we can somehow get to that point.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
