My father is home from the hospital but not feeling any better. They did give him iv fluids that helped a bit as he was severely dehydrated.
Apparently he has head a bad headache on the side of his head for a week now.
He is dizzy and still throwing up.
All of the tests have come back negative so far. They found nothing on the cat scans of his head and abdomen.
He is supposed to go for an MRI but the doctor who he had to call to get a prescription from didn't call back until recently. They gave him an appointment for Monday afternoon.
My mother is a retired nurse and she, like the rest of us, think waiting over the weekend is too long. So she is going to see what she can do.
I'm sorry to hear that your father is not feeling well. He needs an appointment as soon as possible. I do hope that your mother can work "magic" and get him in sooner.
I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
MsH you have my prayers for your Dad. Im a little concerned they sent him home when he is still so sick. Hopefully your mom yank some chains!
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
I hope your Dad is doing better. Could it be something with his ears? My Dad had gotten really dizzy while driving, went to the dr's and ended up getting sick. They put him in the hospital for dehydration and it turns out he had a problem with his ears! Just a thought.
Your family is in my prayers.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
My father is doing somewhat better, but not much. He has his up days and his down days. Thank you for your prayers.
They did find some kind of mass on his brain that showed up on a catscan but the doctors don't think it's a tumor. However, to be sure he was sent for an MRI. He was supposed to get an open one as he is claustophobic but apparently the open one isn't so open either. So they recommended him to get an MRI done that you sit up and the machine just goes over your head. He is supposed to get that done tomorrow.
As for ex, he is now 2 months behind on support payments. I have filed a motion in family court and just have to wait to hear for a court dates. Should be sometime within the next week or so.
Everytime I bring it up he tries to avoid my question to where my checks are. Like today, I sent him a TM saying: We are now into Febuary and still no checks. He wrote back, "Well maybe you shouldn't of spent your money on a house in Richville (sarcastic), got a brand new car, and brought an artificial xmas tree". I wrote back saying I didn't lose anything and he was just jealous. He finally wrote back and said "Don't bother me at work". I then wrote back and said "Oh, I thought you were fired?". He wrote back, "I had a meeting with Bob". He is so full of sh!t. I will save the text messages for court. It shows that he is willingly not paying the checks.
It just disgusts me that he is so selfish that he doesn't realize that his own children will be the ones hurt the most because of him not giving me money. I can't even throw the boys birthday parties because of him. He is definetly jealous because everytime I bring up the support checks he starts saying something about my house. Meanwhile, I don't live in Richville, he does. He also lives in a bigger house, on a bigger piece of property, in an expensive neighborhood. The only difference is, he had to get a house with the ow to get a mortgage.
Yep. They are scummy to not want to support their kids. My ex also lies about work, where he works, etc. etc. Every time I bring it up he says stuff like yours does. One of his favorite lines is maybe my (bf) will support the kids. I then tell him that he made the kids, he will support them. Par for the course behavior of men who won't stand up and be men.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Despite what they have, they still want more and they certainly don't want you to have anything. Jealousy is a big theme in the MLC scenario. My ex use to want me to succeed and have everything wonderful in life. Now he hopes I fail, lose the house, have bad relationships, etc... So hard to deal with..
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
