When I really sat back and analyzed the difference between missing my exh and being lonely and sad that I was no longer married I realized that it wasn't him I was missing. How can you really miss someone that has repeatedly cheated on you, lied to you, strung you along, and thrown you out like garbage? Also Kevin...ask yourself...would you EVER really trust her again even if she did want to come back? How could you? I know I couldn't. I think I just wanted exh here to put a band aid on the M and try and fix my lonely issue and my issue about wanting to be married at any cost. She bolted once...do you want to live in fear of her doing it again in 1 year, 10 years, 20 years? She very well could and most likely would.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
