Do you think that you are need to have a chat with H? I know you have not had R talk for a long time. I think in a sense that was necessary as you sought to rebuild a friendship and you have done a stellar job with that. Do you think he is ready for the chat?
Kara, we're near that... we need to level out w/the D18 stress first... Up until a few weeks ago, we were really building on good times, time alone together a bit, etc... Then that darn D18 and her drama unfolded! She's hopefully on the even keel now...
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Oh, mind, doncha know that 18 y.o girls invented drama? They don't know what even keel means...Hopefully her new responsibilities will straighten her out!
FML! I just went to get in the whirlpool tub in the master bath... start to fill it... go back in a few minutes later. ICE COLD!!! WTF? I check other faucets. ALL COLD! Eeek! I go look at the hot water heaters, and one of them needed to be reset! Good Lord!
In the past five minutes, my biceps have now taken on a new level of pain. Lots of upper cuts, jabs and speed ball today. I think I picturing a certain male nose in front of me too much!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
so how was your day today??? are you still sore? I need to work out too darnit
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
And a massage might not hurt!!