Oh dear - I disappear for one day and look what happens...ok, the good news is you and H are a team now. Remember Rocked sitch, of course there is lingering pain at how hard things have been for you and H's inability to see it. We all know how you feel. You'll get there in time where he can acknowledge you, I know it.
And then this financial crisis - give yourself a big hug for staying calm in such a scary moment! It must feel like a double whammy - H doesn't fully get how his leaving has deeply affected you, now it's financially affecting you. You deserve a hug pat on the back for sticking it through while he was in fogland, and now that you are in reality together, you will have to face this together.
You will still have your family - your horse and hubby, so stay strong girl you'll find a way out TOGETHER. And, don't forget we're with you all the way too
