Op,

I told you the other day you were at a crossroads. You are my friend.

How you react to this could determine what comes next.

She told you something. To me as well, it did not sound like alien speak. I doubt that it is the whole enchilada, but more than likely the tip of the iceberg.

Please do NOT let your belief that this is MLC stop you from seeing that this might just be something that can be worked with.

You don’t have to bend over and let her take advantage of you. But is it possible that some sort of compromise could be reached? A beginning maybe.

Yes you do have some other stuff to work on, but you can do that and maybe do this in the same time.

Please use these next few days to really think about this as objectively as possible and not try to stick it into what you think it should look like, or what it reminds you of and just dismiss it.



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox