Let me add that the NC was by me but also maybe a mutual thing. It stopped the D talk. When I have tried to have some conversation, small talk, the D talk returns. Also she was suspended from her $60,000 a year job last week and will probably be fired. She is suing her school(job) and wants to roll the law suit and her D into one job for her lawyer. So the contact by her is also a result of her falling towards the bottom and reaching out to see if I am still there. Some of the writing I believe is coming from her C in Florida not from her. I do not want a D, whether she is making money or not. I love her for her not for any other reason. I understand her desire for security and I believe that this is her childhood issues that are talking. Her parents were well off and never let her "live". She never grew from her teenage years. I rescued her at the age of 29 and I guess I have become her parent. I did not see all this until now. She is running/rebelling even though she is at home. I can only hope that she will grow up soon before it is too late and she has divorced me. I would stand by her forever and nothing that she has done so far could make me change my belief in her and us.
