I love her for her even though I get frusturated with her actions at times. She is fun loving towards most. She is outgoing and enjoys life. Her life is actually going great for her. Her career definitely helps that out. Before she got her job that helped launch all of this, she did stress a lot about money and took us into debt. But now this has allowed her to breathe in that area and really take life by the horns. She is a positive person. She is smart. She is confident in herself. She is God's daughter and it is my responsibility to treat her that way no matter how hurt or frusturated I may become. She is attractive. Apparently she gets hit on all the time and she has built up quite a social network.
> Is it me? Or is it really everyone else? lol.
No. you are doing everything right. perfect as a matter of fact. and what you wrote about your wife makes alot of sense.
If you think about it you are an excellent husband. You have given your wife the opportunity to experience life on her own and succeed through her own efforts; allowed her to explore her sexuality how she wants with whom she wants without threats, demands, or attempts to guilt her; you have stepped back while she "sought to find herself," in fact, you have even encouraged her and if necessary offered to financially support her.
excellent. all the while, you have stood back and have done what you have felt right for yourself. what is wrong with that?
Everyone else is wrong.
There are alot of people on this site that should be more like you. They are torturing their spouses with pressure, threats of divorce, guilting them, using children to make them feel bad about themselves, when all they are is human.
I read today where someone wrote how it makes them sick how the WAS can destroy a family without guilt for their own satisfaction. Ouchy. How do you know they do not feel guilty? All these people are trying to do is be happy in this short period of time we are on this earth. Who has the right to tell another how they must act or what they must do to be happy? That is one of the main reasons the other person is fleeing their presence and to continue to impose this self-righteous attitude on them they will find in the end their spouses won't return.
Good for you, Kevin. Keep doing what you are doing. In the end it all comes out I'm sure.
