I don't usually recommend this, but xanax helped me out a great deal until the anti-depressants kicked in. I was able to take them when feeling really anxious and they calmed me down and I was able to function. The only thing about xanax is it can become addictive if not used only when needed. I never became addicted to them, but I know others have. So just be careful if you go that route.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...