It's terrible and I can't believe how one gets sucked into this. You start out DB'ing...staying strong...trying hard to reconcile. Then Jekyll turns to Hyde. Someone writes. The other responds.
I have one angry and punitive woman here. One a day to day basis, it is difficult to stay calm, steady and not bow down to her level.
This is exactly something that I could have penned myself, verbatim.
I'm sorry that you're having to go through the crap that you are!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
