Good to see you, LFA. I have been checking to see if you posted.

How is your sitch going?

I'm posting under infidelity/"next steps."

Financial next steps are coming up--taxes!

How are you handling that? together? separately?

I am hoping to be able to gather up all the necessary info without a face to face meeting. I have to run a quicken report for all the deductible rental expenses, and he always did that before.

I hope you are doing OK--up down and feeling guilty and everything, too.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process