Just want my H back

[trytryagain]

flowmom, thanks for the reassuring words. my H has said he wanted to split now before we started a family because he never wanted to put kids through the custody battle he went through growing up. i don't know what makes him feel this wouldn't end up being the case if he married someone else later on - there are NO guarantees in life, after all. i do know that going through this with children would be infinitely more difficult, but the thought of not being with the man i had envisioned one day having children with tears me apart inside.