Thanks for chiming in, P17.

But I think the better thing to do is:return to sender.

Because then the bank and OW can figure it out, and I will stop getting her bank mail.

Which will be better for my mental state, in the long run.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process