Here is what you do... forget for THREE minutes that you are a mother and a wife. Look in the mirror and say out loud.. I am a WOMAN. W-O-M-A-N. Got it, self? WOMAN. I am not just a person that raises children and tends house and is a wife. I am a WOMAN.
You're right, it's a part of myself that I've lost. And after years of being sexually rejected by my H and treated like I'm invisible by the male gender, I'm trying to figure out what it means for me to be a woman right now. I recently read that only 4% of women have had over 21 sexual partners. I am in the 4% club but my self-esteem is so low right now that I can't even imagine flirting.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
but my self-esteem is so low right now that I can't even imagine flirting.
