I am the cause

[MrBond]

I have no pity whatsoever. You cheated and now have to deal with the guilt. Oh poor you. And you don't want to get help.

In my opinion you get everything you deserve. I just wish our WASs felt the same. Sounds like you enjoy playing the role of the victim and want us to actually feel sorry for you and to justify your actions, hold your hand and say everything's going to be alright without doing any work on yourself.

Cake eating and enabling.