Thanks OP and TF. OP-I am on FB and am friends with TF-we don't live too far from each other and are trying to find a time to meet. My real name is something completely different from KJ(my given birthname before adoption as a baby)..but my pic is there..green shirt/brown hair..louisville,CO.
H called shortly after I posted (he was surprised I answered)and said that our conversation bothered him. I said it bothered me too...I talked about how 'rewriting history" or focusing on only one of many points of view..was difficult...The conversation was OK-nothing great. H is taking a required co-parenting class this morning on his own...he'd had talked about doing it together..but I guess not.
I feel kind of done with him right now. If he "wakes up" I don't think its going to be anytime soon.
I do worry about D12. TF and you are right, both kids have known there is something not quite right with H..Doesn't seem like alot of MLCers care what others' think..H certainly does though.
I'm calming down. It helps to vent here..sorry if all you've read lately is venting!
Hoping for a better weekend..got alot to keep me busy!
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.