K4D It's a Wonderful Life

[K4D]

You come here and complain that your wife walks all over you and then at the first opportunity, you let her walk all over you. You say she doesn't, but pretty much everyone here but you sees it. Not once in your description of your wife did you mention how she is TO YOU.

The past 17 months she has gone from being extremely angry and cold and harsh to becoming more cordial and friendly towards me. Prior to any of this, she was wonderful towards me. I couldn't have asked for better companionship and loyalty.

She was also a great mother prior to this. Once this started, that fell off and she lost interest in her kids. She has since regained that and is really becoming a good mother to them again.

I do learn a ton from this forum. But also understand that what may work in one person's sitch doesn't always work in anothers sitch. Divorcing her wouldn't have any affect on her that I could see. Plus it would be going against what the bible says when it says "Husbands, do not divorce your wives". Now people can say what they want about that and that I am hiding behind that and whatever. I have heard it all. But that verse ALWAYS pops in my mind when someone mentions to me filing for D. I don't think that is a coincidence.

I am a terrible DBuster. I can't deny that. I like KerryK's idea. I am considering that.

Kevin