The only thing I'm going to add to trapt's words is this.
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I would gladly take another path if she were by my side. By myself I question whether I want to take this path knowing at the end I might be going the wrong way.
Many of us here would walk through hell to find our wife, if she would walk back out with us. But how many of us would walk through hell not knowing if she would come back out with us?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
